Time is a commodity we never seem to have enough of. Taking care of your children, holding down a job, and juggling chores and social obligations are enough to keep you so busy that you forget to spend alone time with your significant other. While taking time out for your partner can sometimes feel like just one more thing you need to do, it is important to realize the value of this time in nurturing your relationship and keeping it strong. The relaxing and fun moments you have with your partner are critical to surviving the occasional bumps in the road you experience as a couple. Below are some suggestions for ways to take time out for your significant other.
Create an Intimate Night in– With some planning, you can create a night in as enjoyable as one you could have out on the town. Once you have put the kids to bed early, change into your best outfit and open a bottle of wine. Then, make your partner’s favorite meal (or order in) and dine by candlelight to set a romantic mood. Afterward, you can watch a movie both of you have been wanting to see while cuddling on the couch.
Work Out Together– Working out always seems to go more quickly when you have someone with you, and what better person than your partner? Many gyms offer childcare services, which will give you both time to play racquetball, run on the treadmill, or lift weights. As a bonus, breaking a sweat together just may put your mind on bedroom activities for later on in the day.
Take a Vacation– There is no better way to spend quality time with someone than when you are away from the rush of your everyday lives. Family vacations that offer some options for child care, such as cruises and ski resorts, are highly recommended for some additional alone time.
One of the wonderful things about pleasure is that it is boundless. No matter how wonderful your sex life is, there will always be room for it to be even better! Below are some very simple ideas that can intensify your sexual pleasure.
Boost your own sexual confidence. To have the best sex life, you need to be truly comfortable with yourself, which will allow you to be free and uninhibited. You can increase your self-confidence by purchasing a new nighty, dancing naked in front of a mirror, or experimenting with new toy; just do things that make you feel sexy.
Don’t ignore the importance of foreplay. Sometimes the best part of sex can be the anticipation of it beforehand. Start in the morning by giving your partner a hot kiss and a bit of groping before you head out the door. Greet them with more stroking when they get home. To cap it off, light some candles and reward your mate with a long, gentle massage as a prelude to the main event.
Don’t be afraid to try new things. If you feel like you sex life hasn’t had enough variety lately, investigate some new positions. A quick internet search will yield, quite literally, hundreds of new positions you can try. Additionally, think about trying a new location. Something as simple as seducing your partner on the sofa rather than the bed can add some spice to your session.
Take care of yourself. It’s important for you to take care of yourself so that you have the proper energy and stamina for a healthy sex life. This starts with a balanced diet, regular exercise, and the proper amount of sleep. If you need motivation to exercise, consider this: Research shows that people who exercise regularly experience increased blood flow through their entire bodies, including their genital area, which can mean more intense orgasms.